Your Kids Are Cool
September 25, 2009 by Tyler Hartle
As a parent you probably spend a great deal of your time trying to be the best parent ever, doing whatever you can for your children. All the while you’re balancing the needs and demands of a busy life.
Being a parent in today’s world you may tend to feel more like you’re a business owner, rather than a parent. Parenting is like running a small company. In fact, the two are so similar, it’s no wonder why we tend lose sight and fail to keep them separate. You have to manage a household, manage your time, manage a job and manage behavior of your children. The list goes on and on and on.
Increasingly, we hear about the costs of having children. These are usually described as economic, social or career costs. The price of diapers alone makes some parents turn and run. We hear talk of the sacrifices made by adults in their lives as a result of having children. Are these really sacrifices or gifts?
Dr. Wayne Dyer once said, “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” This is the perfect statement for everyone to remember during their term as parents. It is sometimes easy to lose sight of what is important. In the middle of life’s busy pace, take the time out to reflect on the ways your children contribute to your life rather than on what else you can do for your child.
Here are some of the things our children give us as parents:
• Unconditional love and admiration just for being you
• Trust that you are the strongest, wisest and bravest person in the world
• The ability to play your child’s hero
• The ability to be a child again
• The ability to appreciate an intensity of emotion and range of strengths and skills
• The ability to reflect on your own values, attitudes and assumptions
• The ability to re-experience the joy and pleasure to be found in simply being a child
• The ability to share in their amusement and their laughter
• The ability to return to your own childhood
• The ability to take time out from being a grown up
One of the single most important gifts parents can give themselves is time with their children.
Make time each day to play, dream, cry, laugh, or wonder and explore with your children. You will be handsomely rewarded!
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